Confessions of a Recovering “Fixer”: Why I Had to Resign as Savior

I don’t know exactly when the weight settled onto my shoulders, but for as long as I can remember, I’ve been carrying a Savior Complex. I had plenty of ways to justify it. I told myself it was empathy—that because I knew the sting of being left alone to figure things out, I wouldn't let … Continue reading Confessions of a Recovering “Fixer”: Why I Had to Resign as Savior

Inside

Inadequacy is an actress, seeking stages where she can star, The heart skips a beat—misfires—when life isn’t up to par. Serrated heartaches and breaks have left deep, jagged scars Inside. Inside. Where negativity is a squatter, fighting for free living space, And my thoughts are Olympic runners in a never-ending race. Emotions play a predator’s … Continue reading Inside

The Power of a “Government Name”: How Three Syllables Can Save a Life

In the neighborhood where I grew up, we all had two identities. There was the one the streets gave you—the nicknames, the "Lil's," the aliases that felt like armor. Then there was the one on your birth certificate. We called it your "Government Name." Most of the time, hearing that full name meant you were … Continue reading The Power of a “Government Name”: How Three Syllables Can Save a Life

Lord Keep Me Different

Lord, keep me different,‘cause I already tried normaland honestly…It was exhausting. Keep me laughing at the wrong times(not too wrong, I still want friends),tripping over my own feetbut calling it choreography. When everyone zigzags,keep me confidently zigging,even if I forget why I started zigginghalfway through. Keep my weird thoughts weird,my jokes slightly delayed,and my personalitya … Continue reading Lord Keep Me Different